Bipolar Spouse. Need advice. : Living With Mental Illness Forum ...

I know I could search these boards for similar issues, but for some reason, it just feels better to type my request in my own words. I am living with my wife, who I love very much. However, her signs and symptoms of what I believe may be bipolarism get worse almost by the day. I am led to believe it is bipolar disorder starting with the fact her father is diagnosed bipolar and has been on and off meds for many years. In fact, her childhood was effected and she still hates him for his not being there for her when she was a kid.

My wife has very frequent bouts of anger and fights with every single one of her loved ones, including me. In 12 years of being together and 8 years of marriage, I am continually accused of infidelity, even though I have never done anything to justify the accusations. Self created hypothetical scenarios in which I can not reasonably be repaired to defend happen frequently. And it isn't just this topic. Sudden and extreme anger is a daily occurrence and comes without warning. I am certainly not without fault, but my patience is growing very thin.

Here's the issue. Any reference to her father only creates more anger. There is no way I can suggest to her that she may have her father's disorder. What can I do? Our marriage is likely in jeopardy, which is the last thing I want. When she is happy, she is the best. But when she is angry, she is very insulting and vile. There is so much I want to say and so many examples i can give, but I think my point is understood.

I guess I'm just looking for advise. Thanks.

Source: http://www.psychforums.com/living-with-mental-illness/topic102091.html

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